Barbara Klein, Ed.D.

Q. People tell me not to push my gifted child. How do I avoid pushing her?

A. Be smart yourself: Ask yourself if the activity is for me to show off or for my child to have fun. Remember, children deserve a childhood no matter how advanced she may be in science, mathematics, art, music, or athletics. Every child needs to learn social skills. Make time for your child's friendships. If she ever complains about being "pushed," then set goals together that are easy to achieve.